Let’s Talk About Green Funerals
Ever heard of a green funeral? It’s all about saying goodbye in a way that’s kind to the Earth. You see, traditional funerals can be heavy on waste, as well as your wallet! Doesn’t it make more sense to return to the earth in a way that gives back to it? I’ve always liked the idea of nourishing a tree after I’m gone, rather than chopping it down to make a box for me.
And why mark the spot with a chunk of rock? How about planting something beautiful instead? I’d rather skip the harsh chemicals used for preserving bodies— bad for Mother Nature, and really bad for the folks handling them every day.
I shared this funeral wish with my mom, and all she could do was laugh, asking if I want to be buried in the backyard next to my childhood pet guinea pig. Seems like this is how some people think about green funerals.
Funerals are emotional and quite traditional. So, when you start talking about alternatives, it makes people uncomfortable. But green funerals can be very similar to traditional ones, while being kinder to the environment. You can choose from a variety of eco-friendly options, use just a few, or go all in.
You still can have a wake or funeral ceremony, with your body laid out in a simple, biodegradable casket. Even casket renting is an option in many funeral homes – use a traditional casket for viewing, then choose a greener burial.
Also, you can have a church service just the same! The Green Burial Council and Funeral Consumers Alliance are good places to start if you want to learn more. Not everyone is a fan of the Council and their strict certification, but they are worth checking out. It’s all about finding what works for you and what aligns with your values.
As for the business side of things, while the service providers are often friendly and approachable, their websites are not the most user-friendly. Getting price lists and initiating discussions often require an email or a dreaded phone call! In the following days, let’s delve more into the three components of a green funeral: eco-friendly products, funeral homes, and cemeteries.
As for me, I’ve also thought about the kind of service I’d want someday which includes a specific song I’d like played. How about you? Have you thought about how you’d want your own funeral service to go?
Lean into the weirdness, it’s an important conversation!