Title: Still 30 and Chilling at Home?
Hi there! This one’s for all you folks who’ve touched the 30-year milestone and still enjoy your morning cereal with mom. Funny, isn’t it? But let me tell you this, there’s no shame in it!
You’ve probably heard this a lot on my blog, but my parents are simply the best – always backing me up. Growing up, my dad was a bit of a disciplinarian which made me fairly responsible and independent. Even though he was firm, I don’t think I’m much of a freeloader.
Here’s the twist though: I still share my parent’s roof from time to time.
You see, my life’s a tad bit unconventional. I work in arts and have colleagues who lead similar lives. Like when I worked with a cruise line, I was baffled by folks who maintained apartments despite being away most of the year. The same goes for the time I spent in the circus and now with my current touring gig. Finding someone to sublet my apartment every time I’m off seems like an unnecessary headache.
Between my topsy-turvy schedule and love for hanging out with my folks, it’s a no-brainer. I spent half a year with my parents even when I had my own place. Also, having zero rent compared to last year’s $1,250 feels incredible. This even compensated for the pay cut when I switched to my current, and honestly more likable, job.
I get it. This arrangement might not work for everybody and isn’t even my full-time gig. But with parents who don’t mind and a dodgy schedule, why not?
In fact, one of my high school buddies moved back home post-college and the arrangement let her comfortably search for a job and travel. Managed to save quite a bit too!
Bottom line? Living at home is not just about saving money, but also about the comfort and ease, given the parents are on board, and you feel relaxed there.
I’m curious. At what age did you move out? Did you ever find yourself back at home later in life? And how much were you able to save? If you are a parent with a “boomerang child,” how did you feel about them living with you again?
Anyway, just some food for thought!