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Borrowing From Family: The Good, The Bad
Hi, it’s me! So, when I decided to go to grad school, I was looking at a hefty loan. Fortunately, my grandma generously offered to lend me the majority of it. Bingo! I got a huge loan with a sweet 0% interest rate – that’s a big deal!
Borrowing money from family can be super helpful, sure, but it’s also good to weigh up some things before you do. Let’s look at the upside and downside to this.
The Upside:
1. Epic interest rate – Seriously, you’ll never find a better deal.
2. No approval stress – Unlike other loans, with family you don’t need to get approved or share tons of personal details.
3. Flexible payback – You can set a comfortable repayment plan with your family which could even include breaks if you’re switching jobs or facing financial difficulty.
4. Quick money transfer – My grandma had the money in my bank account by Friday after discussing it on Tuesday. Perfect for any urgent needs.
5. Your credit score stays safe – Regardless of how the repayment goes, your credit score won’t take a beating.
The Downside:
1. You need to ask relatives for cash – This can be uncomfortable, making you feel like you’re losing a little pride.
2. They may start giving financial advice – While paying back my grandma, she wasn’t thrilled about some of my decisions. So, there might be a bit of commenting on your lifestyle.
3. There’s a risk of their money situation changing – There’s always a chance they might need the money back in case of an emergency. So, understand their financial situation before borrowing.
4. Doesn’t help build your credit history – Unlike regular loans, family loans won’t help in the long run to improve your credit score.
5. It can be stressful – Believe me, owing a family member can feel heavier than owing a bank.
So, that’s my story, kiddos. Even though there were hiccups, I wouldn’t change a thing. The 0% interest rate and the cushion of flexibility with repayments feels good. And having some backup in case I fall ill or lose my job is always comforting.
Plan ahead for any big expenses in the future, be it like me trying to raise $20,000 or trying to gather a mortgage. If a loan from family isn’t an option for you, don’t worry! There are loads of scholarships, loans and other programs you can look into. For my friends across the pond in Scotland, you guys have some unique debt management options.
So, what are your own experiences? How have you guys managed your education expenses or dealt with debt? Have you ever borrowed from or lent money to family? Can’t wait to hear your thoughts!