How to Cope When a Job Doesn’t Workout
Hey there! It’s Mel from brokeGIRLrich. I’ve been in the theater world for over a decade, but only this month did I experience a job cut at the absolute eleventh hour. Sometimes projects fizzle out, sure, but with enough lead time to bounce back.
This one got the axe less than 24 hours before I was set to start after a couple of weeks of unemployment which came on the heels of another three-week dry spell. It threw a monkey wrench in my finances, stirred up frustration, and raised real concerns about the company’s management.
The ripple effect of the cancellation hit my co-worker from Fame who had registered for the tour on my recommendation. But looking on the bright side, if this is my first incident in 12 years, I guess I’m doing okay!
Luckily, my well-padded emergency fund, minimal monthly expenses, and some sideline gigs have kept panic at bay. However, losing the job stung and sparked off a whirlwind of worries about landing another gig.
So, I thought I’d share some valuable insights I’ve gained during this unexpected downtime:
1. Let people know you’re available: I was skeptical about broadcasting my jobless status on social media, but the avalanche of support was overwhelming. Former colleagues shared job openings, friends reached out with leads, and even a chance opening at a dance troupe happened. So don’t be shy about sharing what you need!
2. See the silver lining: It can be hard to stay positive while unemployed, but try to use this time to your advantage. Hang out with friends, or do things you couldn’t have done while working. It’s good for the soul and lightens the mood.
3. Stick to a routine: Dedicate a few hours to productive work, even if it’s not your typical 9-to-5. I’ve been substitute teaching, babysitting, freelance writing, managing my blog, and even selling items on eBay. Also, consider diving into new projects; this unemployment phase propelled me to become a pyrotechnician and a Notary Public!
4. Update your portfolio: Keep your resume and personal website up-to-date. I landed a one-off stage management gig in Washington, DC just because I was easily searchable online. Also, have a robust cover letter; customize it for each job application. It shows the company that you’re genuinely interested.
You may take every interview opportunity that comes your way as practice; it makes you better at selling your skills.
So, these are a few ways I’m keeping sane and busy during this jobless period. Here’s to hoping that they help you, too, if you encounter a similar situation!